A pretty comprehensive list of conversational cheap shots, and more conversational cheap shots. I can’t think of a way to elaborate on these without sounding either a) passive-aggressive, b) arrogant, c) self-deprecating, or d) some combination of above, so I won’t try.”Okay, maybe a bit – some of these, such as the “Knee Jerk”:” “I would like to answer your question directly, but considering your past reactions / ability to cope with the truth / emotional instability, I feel that to do so would be a disservice to you at this time.” [Other person gets (justifiably) upset.] “See, what did I tell you. You are flying off the handle already!”"might be perfectly understandable, if not terribly sensitive or productive, responses to other tactics, such as the “Pretend Ad Hominem”:” make it seem as if the other person is attacking you rather than making a simple point or correction, especially if you suspect that the other party is correct. Rather than staying on the subject, begin to act hurt